{"id":505,"date":"2025-11-09T13:28:06","date_gmt":"2025-11-09T13:28:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/?p=505"},"modified":"2025-11-10T10:17:39","modified_gmt":"2025-11-10T10:17:39","slug":"tai-sao-ba-me-ngay-cang-tro-nen-qua-dang","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/en\/2025\/11\/09\/tai-sao-ba-me-ngay-cang-tro-nen-qua-dang\/","title":{"rendered":"Why are parents becoming increasingly \u201coverbearing\u201d?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is a whole list of things parents say or ask that can instantly drive young people crazy.<br>\u201cWhy don\u2019t you listen to me?\u201d<br>is one of the phrases that makes young people frustrated, feeling pressured, and wanting to stand up and shout, \u201cThis is my business!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u00ecn k\u1ef9, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ba m\u1eb9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f2n ba m\u1eb9 thu\u1ed9c Gen X ho\u1eb7c Gen Y s\u1edbm mang theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m, th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 n\u1ed7i lo, \u0111\u00f4i khi h\u01a1i c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Causes of Brain Rot<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/en\/2025\/11\/09\/tai-sao-ba-me-ngay-cang-tro-nen-qua-dang\/#Nguoi_tre_voi_tu_tuong_moi\" >Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/en\/2025\/11\/09\/tai-sao-ba-me-ngay-cang-tro-nen-qua-dang\/#Ba_me_voi_cach_lo_lang_cua_%E2%80%9Cnguoi_xua%E2%80%9D\" >Ba m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a &#8220;ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a&#8221;<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/en\/2025\/11\/09\/tai-sao-ba-me-ngay-cang-tro-nen-qua-dang\/#Tu_khac_biet_tro_thanh_mau_thuan\" >T\u1eeb kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/en\/2025\/11\/09\/tai-sao-ba-me-ngay-cang-tro-nen-qua-dang\/#Cach_giai_quyet_mau_thuan_the_he\" >C\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn th\u1ebf h\u1ec7<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/en\/2025\/11\/09\/tai-sao-ba-me-ngay-cang-tro-nen-qua-dang\/#Ket_luan\" >Conclusion<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Nguoi_tre_voi_tu_tuong_moi\"><\/span>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Young people grow up in the era of the Internet, social media, YouTube, and TikTok. They access information quickly, in diverse ways, and see the world from many different perspectives. As a result, young people have many new viewpoints and lifestyles, sometimes completely different from what their parents experienced.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In contrast, parents rely on years of life experience, having gone through many challenges, social rules, and values formed in the past. When looking at the same issue, parents use their old experience to evaluate, while young people use modern information and personal experiences, leading to different perspectives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conflict is not necessarily that parents are overbearing, but rather a natural clash between the new and the old. Young people want to try, parents want to protect, and both see the same picture but interpret it differently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"660\" height=\"440\" src=\"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Lam-the-nao-de-thu-hep-khoang-cach-the-he-giua-cha-me-va-con-cai-tien-si-1-1651632667-799-width660height440.jpg\" alt=\"T\u1ea1i sao ba m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng?\" class=\"wp-image-506\" srcset=\"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Lam-the-nao-de-thu-hep-khoang-cach-the-he-giua-cha-me-va-con-cai-tien-si-1-1651632667-799-width660height440.jpg 660w, https:\/\/linkachu.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Lam-the-nao-de-thu-hep-khoang-cach-the-he-giua-cha-me-va-con-cai-tien-si-1-1651632667-799-width660height440-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/linkachu.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Lam-the-nao-de-thu-hep-khoang-cach-the-he-giua-cha-me-va-con-cai-tien-si-1-1651632667-799-width660height440-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ba_me_voi_cach_lo_lang_cua_%E2%80%9Cnguoi_xua%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>Ba m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a &#8220;ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a&#8221;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I have witnessed quite a few parents reacting strongly when young people want to try something new:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cDo you even know what you\u2019re doing?\u201d<br>\u201cWe\u2019ve lived half our lives already, and you\u2019re trying to teach us?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It may sound a bit rigid, but this worry comes from love. Parents fear their children might fail, face difficulties, or be judged by others. They use the methods they believe are safest to protect their children, even if sometimes it seems a bit overbearing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nh\u00ecn theo ki\u1ec3u kh\u00e1c, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau. H\u1ecd quan t\u00e2m, d\u00f9 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n h\u01a1i drama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tu_khac_biet_tro_thanh_mau_thuan\"><\/span>T\u1eeb kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When young people feel that their parents are not listening, many choose to stay silent to avoid arguments. This helps reduce tension immediately, but if it continues, it can decrease mutual understanding, build up feelings of frustration, and create a psychological distance, making the next conversation even more tense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the other hand, families that practice open communication, listen to each other, and respect opinions help young people feel confident and independent, while still maintaining a strong connection with their parents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cach_giai_quyet_mau_thuan_the_he\"><\/span>C\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn th\u1ebf h\u1ec7<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng minh n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ba m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, b\u1edbt lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, if you want to go somewhere alone, prepare a plan in advance: transportation, costs, and how to handle potential situations. Or when trying a new project, complete it seriously and report the results to your parents. These actions build trust through real evidence and help the adults in your home understand that you no longer need to be overly protected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From my perspective as an observer, I have picked up a few tips to prevent everyone from arguing until their faces turn red:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Truly listen without judgment. Just being heard makes young people feel respected.\nRecognize that parents\u2019 worries come from love, not control.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Share gently and affirm your feelings, for example:<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201cCon hi\u1ec3u m\u1eb9 lo cho con, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1eb9 nh\u00e9.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1eed v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9ng minh n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ec3 ba m\u1eb9 b\u1edbt lo, v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f4i khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u0169ng vui, v\u00ec c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9ng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ket_luan\"><\/span>Conclusion<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The gap between young people and their parents is not a negative thing. It is an opportunity for young people to learn patience and better understand adults. Parents learn to accept new things and trust their children more. 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