{"id":791,"date":"2026-03-17T03:09:25","date_gmt":"2026-03-17T03:09:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/?p=791"},"modified":"2026-06-10T02:02:22","modified_gmt":"2026-06-10T02:02:22","slug":"cang-mang-tre-em-cang-khong-nghe-loi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/linkachu.net\/en\/2026\/03\/17\/cang-mang-tre-em-cang-khong-nghe-loi\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do children listen less the more they are scolded?"},"content":{"rendered":"

In many families, there is a familiar paradox that almost every parent has experienced: the more they remind or scold their children, the more stubborn the children seem to become.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A child may be reminded many times but still continues doing what adults do not want. When reminders turn into criticism or even shouting, parents often expect the child to change immediately. But the reality is often the opposite: the child reacts more strongly, becomes more resistant, or withdraws into silence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This leads many parents to a very common question: what should we do when children do not listen?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, from the perspective of child psychology, scolding rarely helps children truly change their behavior. Instead, it can make them feel hurt, misunderstood, or develop negative reactions toward adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Therefore, rather than focusing only on \u201cfixing\u201d a child\u2019s behavior, it may be more important to understand what is happening behind that behavior. And when we begin to see children with greater understanding, the way we respond to them will gradually change as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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